Thirteen Annoying Phrases from People Who Have Never Had to Lose Weight
A fact of life for people who are overweight is that we all occasionally deal with people who simply don’t understand what it’s like to be overweight. Either they don’t know that saying some things are rude or insensitive or they simply don’t care. Whichever it happens to be, it’s annoying and it often hurts.
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1. Can’t you just stop eating for a while? (Especially annoying when they say it while eating something.)
2. Can’t you just, you know, try harder?
3. I don’t get why it’s so hard for some people to lose weight.
4. Want to go to McDonald’s?
5. Want to go clothes shopping?
6. Are you sure you should eat that?
7. Are you sure you want to eat that?
8. Be careful; that might stop/break/fall apart (depends what you’re standing on/sitting on/using).
9. I’m sorry, we don’t have things for wo/men of your…size. (Always that much more nasty with the pause in there.)
10. Is that all for you?
11. Go to the gym. (Especially annoying if you do go to a gym.)
12. You’re related? (When talking about your skinnier relatives.)
13. No words. Just dirty or ’sympathetic’ looks.
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May 10th, 2008 at 12:57 am
My own personal unfavourites are:
“I’m just lucky, I guess. I never gain wait, no matter what I eat.”
and
“You should just have a cup of warm water with lemon juice in the morning and you’ll be fine…”
May 10th, 2008 at 1:08 am
Ack! Those are horrible. I’m glad I haven’t heard them before.